tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6031001845697861072.post3476063161600806048..comments2012-01-02T14:56:41.893-08:00Comments on ruralgal: Loss of a FriendSandy Conleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03500687784520987300noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6031001845697861072.post-82440417598817519282011-04-20T10:23:56.819-07:002011-04-20T10:23:56.819-07:00Okay, so I am going to ramble here... We have all...Okay, so I am going to ramble here... We have all made mistakes. I don't know a perfect person...Do you? I think the saddest part of this that I do not understand is how can someone not forgive another who is truly sorry? I can't imagine giving up a wonderful friendship because of my own personal pride. Surely there has to be something else involved here. My heart so aches for you and all the feelings you must be having. The Savior told those who were without sin to cast the first stone. Do we not all make mistakes that we wish we could take back? Guess I am just too softhearted that I wouldn't want to reject and hurt the other person as well. If someone truly repents and is sincerely sorry I cannot hold a grudge. Yes...this will be a growing/learning experience for your future. Be glad that you learned it and move on to treat others even better. There is not one person I know that wouldn't give anything to have a friendship like that. Life is to short and precious.<br /><br />God bless.<br /><br />Peggy H.<br />www.neverenoughstash.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6031001845697861072.post-23189947219384026672011-04-20T00:31:02.641-07:002011-04-20T00:31:02.641-07:00Sandy, that is so sad..I am very sorry..My best fr...Sandy, that is so sad..I am very sorry..My best friend lives quite a distance away, and we are not close like we used to be, just due to distance and her busy with working and going to college for her degree..I never know when is a good time to call, so I rarely do..I know she is busy and my life is boring and I don't feel like anyting I say is of interest to anyone. I need to do better..<br />I guess all you can do is move on, but you have to mourn and get ok with yourself first..don't beat yourself up too bad, ok..everyone messes up sometime..Hang in there]sending hugs to you<br />BarbDogmom Divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00200083614598683445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6031001845697861072.post-29003180437950171162011-04-19T14:53:51.022-07:002011-04-19T14:53:51.022-07:00Oh honey, I'm so sorry!!!! {{{{HUGS}}}}
Yes,...Oh honey, I'm so sorry!!!! {{{{HUGS}}}} <br /><br />Yes, I've lost a friend, not quite as close as your friend. But still we used to talk everyday, call each other w/all our problems, she knew everything about me. She's the one who "ruined" everything by telling a lie that to me was "uncalled for". <br /><br />She pretended to have this whole relationship with someone "online" and told this huge background/story/etc to go with it ... and went so far as to have this person "join" websites and other things ... when all in the end it was her pretending to be someone else. I was shocked, sad, upset, hurt ... I'd even talked to her "friend" online about her .. and then to find out it was her in the end .. I was very angry, hurt ... shocked .. <br /><br />Ever since this happened we have hardly spoken. She might call me once every 6 months. When she does I take what she says at a distance, and don't believe half of what she tells me because I had trusted her with so much and in the end ... all she could do was lie to me.Emily & Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01347973155053873412noreply@blogger.com